We had a big controversy with the owner, Joani, who didn't want to have dildoes in the store because she was so exasperated with everyone adoring "the phallus" -- she just wanted to get the phallus out of her store entirely! And I had to say to her, "Look, I've got lesbians banging down the door for dildoes! I know that's not supposed to be what lesbians want, but that's just because we've accepted this dishonesty that there's nothing physically pleasurable about fucking -- and there is! it's very stimulating; people aren't just doing it because they've been "brainwashed by the patriarchy" -- it feels good! And some people have these gender-bending fantasies -- who know what everyone's reasons are, but they want them.." Joani and I would laugh a lot about the fact that I (supposedly the radical lesbian) was taking the pro-dildo position, and she (the suburban straight housewife -- she' not really, but she likes to pretend) was taking the reverse, but eventually that gave way...