I think men don't speak up and demand what they want. I think men accept this Faustian bargain: that they can have all the sexual entertainment and thrills and chills they want... but only if they agree to keep their mouth shut and accept guilt and shame. There's the underlying guilty thought that: "If they were a better person, they wouldn't need this. They must be awfully lonely; they must be awfully ugly; they must be awfully insecure to have to resort to this terrible vice
So it's like being a cripple. The product is designed for crippled, and the audience is treated in this most patronizing way. But I don't buy that; I think, "There are plenty of men who are looking for something more" -- I meet those kind of men all the time...there are plenty of men who, without shifting their masculine point of view, will ask for what women are asking for.
I can't tell you how many letters I get from men saying they want to see women cum in movies -- of course they do! If you like it in your life, why wouldn't you want to see it in a movie? There's nothing as exciting as feeling that your partner is responding to you.